![]() An East Village fixture famous for its massive steam rooms and women-only days, it once drew celebrities from John Belushi to Frank Sinatra, and now attracts a cross-section of New Yorkers from Russian sexagenarians to downtown fashionistas. Occasionally, a spa's reputation for sensual goings-on will precede it, as with New York City's famed Russian & Turkish Baths on 10th Street. One thing led to another and he ended up finishing me off, which was great." He started slowly touching my thigh, then going higher, and it turned into a game of how far each of us would take it. "Initially kept it very clean, but I was really turned on and I let him know it by moaning and saying how good it felt. She first discovered erotic massage during an in-room rubdown at an upscale Miami hotel. Some masseuses will give a female happy ending massage. ![]() "It's all about giving the right signals," she says. The key, according to veterans like Amy, a 32-year-old model/actress who's had happy ending massages in two different states, is clear but subtle communication. The bottom line: Women like massages and woman like orgasms, so why shouldn't the two sometimes (literally) come hand in hand? (*Names have been changed to protect the less-than-innocent.) "Women are finally getting comfortable with the idea that it's OK to feel erotic in what's already a really erotic setting." "It's such a well-known thing for guys, and women are finally getting more comfortable asking for it," said Anna*, a self-described massage healer who has worked at several upscale spas and performed happy endings on female customers. RELATED: I Went Undercover To Explore The Secret Life Of Suburban Swingers And with competition among spas getting ever more intense, customers are starting to demand more than just Enya and free herbal tea with their Shiatsu, according to massage therapists. It’s a great idea going in, but not so much after.Luckily, societal rules restricting female sexuality are dying as fast as "Sex and the City" slayed them, and it was only a matter of time before women embraced the notion that "quick releases" aren't just for men. You always feel gross after, or at least, I did. It’s usually towards the end of the massage, but I would prefer if it was done in the middle, but you don’t always get to pick and choose… Honestly, though, it’s pretty gross. Also, if I was traveling for work, I’d usually get a massage somewhere there. PS: Did you go to the same place/ person each time? M: I’m not sure. Probably half and half, depending on the place. PS: Do you think their bosses know they offer it? M: Usually like $40- $60 - separate from the price of the massage. M: If you are getting a massage, they'll sort of touch in that area… if you don’t move away and you are giving off vibes that you are interested, they’ll probably ask if you want more for more tip. PS: Is there a secret code to use if you want one- how does it work? Even fancy hotel spas - it’s not just the places you would think… Even national chains - which I won’t name. It feels like 90 percent of places I’ve gone to get massages have sort of offered it. ![]() PS: How did you find a place that would do it? M: It wasn't like a set routine, but probably every couple of months. ![]() PS: Would you have been OK with your partner doing it behind your back? So it kind of feels like avoiding that when you are in a relationship. I haven't gotten any happy ending massages when I'm single because I'm hooking up with people. It’s not like you are getting their number after- it’s basically just like an extra part of a massage, which isn't considered cheating in itself. M: Not really because you aren't touching the other person and there’s no emotional attachment. Keeping it a secret feels seedier than doing it. I definitely want to be more open and communicative moving forward. M: Definitely not… I’m single now, but if I wanted to do it again in the next relationship, I would tell the person. We had been together for three years at that point and it was something I wanted to try. Michael: To be honest, I was really just bored in my relationship. Personal Space: What made you want to get a happy ending massage? Personal Space spoke to Michael, 32 from Manhattan, who gave the scoop on how the transaction typically goes down. Take billionaire Robert Kraft for example - he has a beautiful partner, tons of money, and was still getting happy ending massages. Despite her castmates insisting their husbands wouldn’t dare it, it seems to be a more common occurrence than people think. Happy ending massages have been a hot topic ever since The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills' Denise Richards admitted she encouraged her husband to get one.
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